Step-children: How to parent beyond the stereotype
I first met my stepdaughter 15 years ago. When Mercedes climbed into the backseat of her dad’s car that day, she was a few days shy of starting grade four and cute as a button. But sitting in the front seat, I suddenly felt, and that was no help.
Since then, however, Mercedes has brought an incredible amount of joy to my family, and our relationship is easily one of the best aspects of my life. So in honour of this often maligned parent figure, here are five time-tested tips for being a great stepparent:Rather than trying to solve issues that arise by yourself, tackle them as a team. “The key to a successful blended family is stability, predictability and presenting a united front as a couple,” says psycho-therapist Sandra Pribanic.
And since blended families often mean extra appointments, carpools and responsibilities, don’t forget to. As the kids get older, you may want to get away together . “Take time every year to get away with your partner,” Jakob suggests. “Unlike ‘conventional’ families, step families are nuanced, and it is so important to validate the partnership.”It is your job to get to know your step child, not the other way around. Ask questions, listen, and follow up on conversations.
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