I was furious, and I will continue to be furious for the foreseeable future.
, and even though I’m a man, I share your anger. There’s no need for me to rant about the Supreme Court’s decision any further than that.
You’re not alone. I’ve talked to many women since the news broke who are simply refusing to bear the weight of handling birth control responsibilities, and quite frankly, I applaud them for doing so. Men have skated by for far too long in that regard, and it’s time that we take more responsibility if we claim to care about the women we’re partnered with.
If you and your husband choose not to have any more kids, then I highly recommend that he gets a vasectomy. I know there’s always a sense of heightened anxiety for men due to the thought of a doctor operating on us below the belt, but you need to reassure him that it is truly one of the simplest surgical procedures one can have.
Your husband’s comment about pill-popping is incredibly ignorant, and I would advise him that many women endure unpleasant side-effects from taking birth control pills. Not to mention, it can be expensive to be on a continuous birth control regimen. A vasectomy is a relatively inexpensive one-time expense that’s safe and easy. It’s an absolute no-brainer for men to get one if you know for sure that you don’t want to have any more children. PlusI think you should absolutely hold firm on this.
It’s not “incredibly selfish” of you to do this. Actually, it’s incredibly selfish of him not to ask, “I can see how the Supreme Court’s ruling is upsetting you. How can I be a more helpful partner?”
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