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I am an identical twin and also a therapist. Your letter from a wife whose husband prioritizes his twin connection over his marriage prompted my response.
This man’s heels are dug in. Many spouses fear therapy because, deep down, they know they’re wrong and they dread a two-against-one situation. I would suggest the wife seek counseling for herself, for the sake of her own mental health. A good therapist will help her to accept and understand her own feelings, and communicate more effectively with her husband. Therapy would also provide her an opportunity to vent in a safe, confidential space.
My twin and I are very close. My husband knows he can’t come between us. I value our marriage vows and prioritize our relationship as a couple. Both relationships are primary for me, and both my twin and my husband know and accept this. My husband and I are still happily married after 51 years. --Thank you for your letter. I especially appreciate hearing from a therapist and a twin! You have experience that will help not only the letter writer but also others who are in similar situations.
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