I understand grieving. But am I supposed to just wait until he feels like talking or being bothered with me, for however long it takes?
I’m trying to be understanding, but for someone to just cut you off and not even acknowledge you is awful. I mean, he’s completely emotionally unavailable, like I don’t exist! I don’t know what to do. -- PUSHED ASIDE IN THE SOUTH
DEAR PUSHED: Here’s what to do. Back off! Since you understand grieving, you must know that no two people grieve exactly alike or on the same timetable. Your boyfriend has told you explicitly what he needs. If you care about him, give him space and stop personalizing this. His emotional needs must come before your own right now. Distract yourself by seeing friends or involving yourself in activities you can enjoy for the next month or so.
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