Was I disloyal to him when I said he had overstepped?
Ask Amy: We agreed to stay out of bars. Now he’s in two bands and says there’s nothing I can do about it.I told her my husband has a good heart and wants what’s best, but I agreed with her that he overstepped, and said I would speak with him.I understand why he is upset, but this is a decision to be made solely by these young adults.
You don’t agree with your husband’s choice to focus on this. Being honest about your own point of view is not disloyal, but an alternative might have been for you to urge this young woman to speak with your husband directly, since her issue is with him. I work in a retirement community in Montana. I was recently injured at work and am on extremely light duty.
They have also reassured me that my job is safe, and I should not fear being dismissed due to my inability to perform most of my required daily tasks.