6 dating tips from bartenders, based on the worst dates they've ever witnessed:
get an intimate peek into the miscommunications, awkward pauses and cute leg-touching that take place when two people convene for a drink in the hopes of connecting —and asked them their tips for successful dates, based everything they’ve witnessed while on the job. bartender says that the most essential thing is to focus on having a good time—not desperately perusing the scene.
“Be the one having a good time,” he says. “People think so much about who they should have in their group when they go out, where they should go, who they should be around—you always ultimately want to be the one having a good time. Because people are drawn to that. If you try to force it, you’ll fail. It's frustrating to feel like you're not actively moving toward that endgame, but you are, I assure you.
“Recently I saw a guy who kept telling a girl he was lonely, and that it’s so hard to meet someone,” a Williamsburg bartender says. “In New York, that’s a given.”Don’t take different dates to the same bar every night.“One weekend a guy came in on a date who I recognized having come in recently,” a server at a Manhattan bar says.
“If a date is going well, they look friendly, warm, genuinely interested,” he says. “They laugh, rather than smile politely. They order more than one round. Or at the very least, after aggressively sipping their first to give an alibi to awkward pauses, the second round isn't merely a desperate gesture. Any date that looks or sounds like a weirdly intimate job interview is not going well.” “A couple got into a fight on New Years’ Eve,” an NYC bartender says.
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